ABSTRACT
This chapter examines human connections and attachment theory in clinical practice. The main goal of therapy from an attachment perspective is to promote integration. From the beginning, attachment theory was a systemic theory, where an individual's inner experiences were seen as being organized by dynamic transactions and where the individual was seen as continually growing and adapting within his context. Attachment theorists suggest that change involves both emotions and cognitions. It is not about only feeling new emotions. Nor is it about having insight into old patterns. And nor is it simply about altering behaviors. Though there is no direct correlation between any specific psychopathology and patterns of attachment, insecure attachment styles are seen as risk factors for mental disorders. According to attachment theory, it is only when feeling safe and secure that a client can better tolerate distress. A secure therapeutic relationship is one where a client feels safe.
