ABSTRACT

For some survivors, the end of a relationship with an abusive partner really is the end of the abuse. However, for many survivors, just because the relationship is over, this doesn't mean that the abuse has stopped. Whether through custody or parenting issues, financial ties, legal and court proceedings, or ongoing stalking or harassment, many survivors find that former abusive partners continue to hurt them for a long period of time—sometimes, even years or decades. This chapter provides strategies for survivors to use to address continued abuse, including seeking professional support, setting boundaries, and considering the unique challenge of forgiveness when abuse continues to occur.