ABSTRACT

This chapter describes how we write our notes in collaboration with the families, as a public note-taking practice. We do our best to write the exact words and sentences spoken by each member of the family, to honour their words and language, highlight their wisdom, and make visible what is most helpful. This public note-taking technique can also be used in other contexts such as conferences, assessments, anamneses, notes at meetings, and supervision. The technique of organizing the notes on the paper chart is described step by step, focusing on different techniques, such as mapping the problem, tracking a story, using metaphors, different colours, and drawings. The note-taking supports keeping the therapy on track and focusing on the family's preferred life. The “reach for the stars” technique supports the family's resilience and the therapist to write the therapeutic letter. Two stories illustrate how this technique can be experienced as empowering by patients and families.