ABSTRACT

One of the cornerstones of building connections relates to our tolerance for other people and our willingness to try to see things from their perspective. Recognizing and accepting others' needs can be very difficult, especially if their needs and wants differ or are in contradiction to our own. Cultivating the flexibility necessary to see the world from many points of view can lead to an understanding and tolerance of others, as well as cultivating increased respect. Take a moment to complete the Fresh perspectives activity to help the girls build this flexibility. Friendship dramarespect and tolerance can go a long way to ward off some of the typical drama associated with middle and high school. But being a good problem solver can also come in handy when it comes to friendships. Focusing on solutions requires both parties to be willing to be a little wrong in order to move forward.