ABSTRACT
Analysis of transactions can suggest an alliance rupture, for example, an unexpected, jarring crossed transaction may suggest the presence of a rupture. If the therapist suspects a rupture, or experiences some strain in the relationship, naming the tension and openly exploring it begins the process of rupture repair. The nature and process of the rupture, together with the client's emotional experience of the rupture, need to be accounted for and explored. It is worth enquiring whether the relational and affective experience of the rupture is in any way familiar for the client. Reactions can be quite intense at these times, for both therapist and client. It is absolutely crucial that at these times the therapist seeks to maintain as non-defensive a position as possible and has the humility to admit mistakes. By taking a non-defensive position, the therapist provides the client with a new, healing and healthy model for relating.
