ABSTRACT

This could include increased self-awareness, greater capacity for emotional regulation, improved relationships, increased motivation, developing insight into their patterns and their origins, and so on. There is considerable research evidence to show that therapist warmth, empathy and unconditional positive regard are crucial for effective therapy. A therapist who ignores this and pursues a contract without first providing an adequate attuned ‘play space’ for their client may well be experienced as unlikely to be able to provide a sufficient ‘holding environment’. It is perfectly fine for the therapist to suggest potential general contracts to unsure clients regarding the nature of the work they could productively work on. Indeed, good therapy is likely to cover most if not all of these suggestions as it unfolds, so suggesting them as potential areas of focus within the therapy could easily be used as standard practice with all clients, regardless of whether they are unsure or not.