ABSTRACT
This chapter focuses on a certain category of complex mourning which is entitled “blank mourning”: a mode of mourning unique to bereaved parents who themselves, or their families, are Holocaust survivors. In “blank mourning,” the experience of mourning includes a mixture of dimensions of sacrificer and sacrificed, victim and victimizer. This mixture turns the object of mourning into an ambivalent one, and as a resultits representation becomes impossible. Instead, sensory adhesion to the concrete object replaces the ability to produce a rich inner representation of this object. This is reflected in a hollow and artificial use of pseudo-symbolic structures of language, in the recourse to clichés, and in the clinging to rituals of mourning which, like clichés, do not mediate between the mourner and the lost object but rather hold it in a compulsive grip that separates the mourner and the pain of loss.
