ABSTRACT
We need to keep repeating, almost like a mantra, that play is essential for life
and living. Play is not a childish ‘add-on’ if we happen to have time on our
hands. It is not enabled by expensive designer toys, themed outings, or epic
films and DVDs. Play develops from the initial playful interaction between
mother and child. Indeed, my own observations demonstrate that the seeds
are sown during pregnancy when mothers have playful episodes with their
unborn children. The playful relationship forms the basis for healthy
attachment, which generalises out into wider relationships.