ABSTRACT

We need to keep repeating, almost like a mantra, that play is essential for life

and living. Play is not a childish ‘add-on’ if we happen to have time on our

hands. It is not enabled by expensive designer toys, themed outings, or epic

films and DVDs. Play develops from the initial playful interaction between

mother and child. Indeed, my own observations demonstrate that the seeds

are sown during pregnancy when mothers have playful episodes with their

unborn children. The playful relationship forms the basis for healthy

attachment, which generalises out into wider relationships.