ABSTRACT

This chapter focuses on a crucial element of the therapeutic process: containing conflict. Conflict is naturally a part of the process in couple therapy, and this chapter illuminates the role of the therapist as a coach and mentor to couples as they navigate the boundaries of conflict and learn to manage and resolve it in a meaningful way. The author provides useful fictional examples but also contextualizes her views in her own clinical experience, sharing insights into her decision-making processes when attempting to discern whether to work with couples where conflict escalates and risks to the safety of the couple become forefront in the clinical process.