ABSTRACT

Due to the emphasis on “traditional” gender roles, the “nuclear family,” pro­ creation and conservative religious values, many gay and lesbian Jews feel a sense of alienation from the Jewish community and develop an ambivalent or conflict­ ed relationship about their own Jewish identity (Fishman 2000:106-109; Schnoor 2003). In addition to the difficulty of homophobia in the Jewish community, gay or lesbian Jews cannot presume full acceptance from the broader queer commu­ nity, as movements that focus on sustaining a collective identity for an oppressed

group sometimes overlook the concerns of sub-groups found within the larger movement (Eder, Staggenborg and Sudderth 1995:489; Goffman 1963:138). As a result, gay Jews often struggle to find ways to successfully negotiate their ethno­ religious and sexual identities. Based upon in-depth interviews of thirty gay Jewish men in Toronto, this work offers a case study in which to empirically and theoretically explore the varied experiences of these intersecting identities.