Relational partners have a seemingly innate sense of whether or not things are “just.” “I’m always the one to clean the kitchen.” “You never initiate.” “When you borrow my truck you don’t refi ll it with gas.” “You hurt me, and ‘I’m sorry’ is supposed to make everything okay?” “Is there some way I can make things up to you?” or “Hey, you owe me big time for what happened!”