ABSTRACT
Object Relations Theory has been described as “a theory of unconscious internal object relations in dynamic interplay with current interpersonal experience”. In considering object relations theories in more depth it is possible to see the parallels between these theories and the development of reciprocal roles (RRs). Melanie Klein is an influential figure in the shift in emphasis from the role of internal biological drives to the importance of external interpersonal relationships. In healthy personality development, according to Cognitive Analytic Therapy theory, an individual would ideally develop a range of healthy RRs based on good-enough parenting. In relying less on the process of splitting to manage feelings, a more integrated view of the self and others can be achieved. Along with this comes a less extreme perspective; however, although bad things are seen as ‘less bad’, good things are also seen as ‘less good’.
