ABSTRACT
The first thing mentoring programs can do for parents and guardians are to respect their role, listen to their concerns, and meet them halfway. The vast majority of parents want only the best for their children, and discussions with them, even by phone, often help bridge the gap between parent's children and programs. Programs can also build chances for parents to participate, in college visits, in trips, even in a simple celebration to mark the end of the program. Parents need to feel comfortable with the opportunities that their children have, and this can take time. Finally, parents and guardians need to have their own dreams and frustrations acknowledged. Many women restart stalled college careers while their daughters are in school, to show their children that anything is possible. Anything mentoring programs can do to show respect to the aspirations of both parents and young people will be repaid in loyalty and appreciation.
