ABSTRACT
Jokes about pickles and ice cream notwithstanding, expectant mothers often have very specific dietary needs. In recent years, these have followed the dietary trends among the general population, with an emphasis on fruits, vegetables, and low-fat milk products. Many doctors advise expectant mothers to avoid alcohol and caffeine. Smoking is strongly discouraged, of course. The past quarter-century has seen the growth of tremendous openness and diversity in the way couples handle the childbirth experience. Only a generation ago, the father's involvement was limited to phoning the doctor, driving to the hospital, and pacing in the waiting room. One question that always comes up around the birth of a grandchild, particularly if the grandparents live far way, is when and for how long they should come to visit. One of the touchiest issues for many families is how to commemorate the birth of a child.
