ABSTRACT

In this chapter we explore novel modes of developing intimate relationships arising within the growing use of internet dating sites worldwide. Internet dating as a technology of intimacy offers a means to meet social norms regarding gender and sexuality with regard, for instance, to fulfilling societal requirements such as limiting cross-sex contact and pre-marital sexuality and encouraging monogamous marriage, yet simultaneously it may enable some heterodoxical avenues which redirect these norms away from parental, familial or other social restrictions. Our aim in the book as a whole and in this chapter is to highlight such heterodoxical possibilities. Here we focus specifically upon internet dating sites and dater profiles. We draw on a collaborative study we conducted with colleagues in order to consider continuities and variations in Britain, Uganda, Denmark and Australia, as well as undertaking our own analysis of these possibilities in Argentina, China and Turkey.