ABSTRACT
In this chapter, Oscar uses his personal experience as a Mexican recently settled in the USA to explore aspects of displacement and mobility through his everyday encounters with colleagues and lovers. He reflects on the power imbalance he has experienced in different organisational contexts – as an established organisational psychologist in Mexico and, recently, as a sales support worker. Through narrations of his journey, he offers insights on the inseparability of his gayness from his everyday life, even in instances where he is not the one thinking about this identity. He concludes by problematising monogamy and using his explorations with polyamory to think about the future of gay men’s relationships.
