ABSTRACT
In this chapter, the lines of thought exploring existential conditions are brought to a conclusion. For what can be more challenging to consider than our own finite and mortal existence? It is shown that the analysis carried out in this book implies that the notion of gender identity has undergone several stages of deconstruction. Briefly stated, it may be said that the deconstruction of gender identity, which shows itself to be a striving towards an identity or to a project – masculinity as a project – culminates in an affirmation of our finite existence: identity and mortality are antitheses. Thus, in this chapter, the intention is to demonstrate that an affirmation of death and finality offers a potential for a deeper sense of joy in life; it is not a joy of an instrumental kind that transcends or goes beyond the existent but an affirmation of what is actually given. Renouncing a narcissistic and controlling attitude brings about a deep sense of freedom, one that can also be experienced, however difficult it is to endure, as surrender of oneself, which presents a significant challenge to us all and especially for those looking for recognition in phallic masculinity and its project. The chapter concludes with an attempt to characterize the self that is manifested in self-surrender, which the masculine project not only forfeits but also mutates into its antithesis.
