ABSTRACT
The term Dysregulating other comes from affect regulation theory, which explores the effects of interpersonal affect regulation and dysregulation on emotional well-being, both in childhood development and in adult psychotherapy learn that trying to argue with any of these thoughts is an effort doomed at the start. They are each the storyline of a lonely narrative that has its own logic for being, a logic buried along with the experiences of broken communion and self disintegration that made the story necessary. Humiliation is most powerful when the ruptured relationship in which it happens is an important relationship for the one humiliated. Chronic shame develops when many repetitions of such shame experience form a person's lifelong patterns of self-awareness and response to others. They have described varieties of shame experience, from unpleasant self-consciousness to abject humiliation, and they have disentangled shame from guilt.
